Guest Post by Jana Lynch
December is an expensive month for my family.
Not only do we celebrate both Christmas and Hanukkah
but our daughter’s birthday falls right in the middle of the month.
As a result, we end up with a glut of presents, half of which remain unopened until the next year when we have to purge and make room all
over again.
It’s getting kind of annoying.
This year, in an effort to combat the army of gifts that enter my house, I’ve been very particular about what she receives, trying to focus on needs. But as I looked around to see what she needed, I realized that the child is very lucky and doesn’t need a whole lot. Which means that we’re left with a whole lot of “want” purchases and that can get very ugly very quickly.
So I made a list of gifts to get a child that has all of her major holidays crammed into one month and doesn’t need a whole lot:
1. Gift Cards
I know that many people don’t advocate for gift cards but I do. I love them. I think it’s a great way to teach kids about shopping on a budget and trying to make the most of their money. Plus, gift cards give them the freedom to shop for what they truly want and since it’s their money, parents have no input, which in turn fosters independence. If you really hate gift cards, cash works too.
2. Experiences
Instead of giving a material gift, create the gift of an experience. Take a family day trip to an amusement park or aquarium or a play; anything that you might not ordinarily do and will give the kid lasting memories. We do this. Rather than giving our daughter a birthday gift, we have a party for her at a location of her choice. We know she’ll remember the party for a
long time, whereas the gift, might just end up in the trash.
3. Quality jewelry
This is a good time to get a piece of jewelry that will last a long time. If your budget is tight and you don’t have a lot of money to spend, look at what you own. Maybe you have a piece of jewelry or a watch that you don’t wear or use; why not pass it on to the kid? Create an heirloom. Besides, there are a lot of kids who think it’s really cool to wear mom or dad’s fancy stuff.
4. Redecorate his/her bedroom
As kids get older, their tastes change. Maybe they think their room is too “babyish” or they all of a sudden are really into the color orange and want an orange bedroom. Why not give the gift of redecorating? You can browse Pinterest or Google for inexpensive, age-appropriate ideas and, as a bonding experience, you can work on everything together. Or, you can make it a surprise, ready when your kid comes home from school one day. If you do choose to do this, just be prepared to see less of your child.
The nicest part about these types of gifts is that the price is flexible. They can be done on a tight, average, or extravagant budget. The point is to make your child feel special during the holidays. There are plenty of ways to do that without spending a ton of money or receiving junk that will end up in the trash.
Money Saving Enthusiasts!! I’m Jana and I run a personal finance blog, Daily Money Shot, where I talk about money (but not the boring parts). I’m also a freelance writer and founder of the blogger mentoring program, Bloggers Helping Bloggers. I’m thrilled to be guest posting here and when you’re done reading what I have to say, come say hi on Twitter or Facebook!
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Linsey K
/ December 12, 2012These are all great ideas! We really enjoy giving the kids craft kits. They can make the crafts, then give away the results. No junk left in the house!
Jana @ Daily Money Shot
/ December 13, 2012That’s a good solution to the problem. I might have to steal it…
admin
/ December 13, 2012I love that idea! It keeps them busy. They experience the fun of making it and then you ship it out. LOL
Mandy @ MoneyMasterMom
/ December 13, 2012I tried to convince my parents to give the kids admission to an indoor waterpark this year instead of toys. Mom thought that wouldn’t be fun to open. Now, we’ll have more crap in the toy room. Oh well
Jana @ Daily Money Shot
/ December 13, 2012I love that idea!!! My kids would flip if she received something like that (in a good way). It’s fun, it’s outside the home and it can be a family activity. What a shame that your mom didn’t see it that way.
admin
/ December 13, 2012I replied below.:)
Derek @ Freeat33
/ December 13, 2012I would advocate cash over gift cards. Kids need to see cash exchanged for goods. There is too much plastic around, and kids conceptualization of money will suffer as a result.
Jana @ Daily Money Shot
/ December 13, 2012That’s a very good point. And I agree with you for the most part. There are some circumstances where a gift card is easier. For instance, my family lives far away and it’s easier for them to mail gift cards than cash. Less risk. Or if maybe you know the kid’s parent will spend the cash on something else; gift cards can control that, too.
admin
/ December 13, 2012I agree with both of you. Cash does teach lessons but I wouldn’t trust giving it to some people. LOL
admin
/ December 13, 2012I think it takes the fun out of the gift giving for the grandparent. They don’t care about what you want.;0)